Why Fashion Is Not Just Superficial

Sometimes I think we can get into a mindset where we think fashion is superficial. Seeing some of the far-out fashions on the runway can lead us to think that it is a whole different world. It is hard to relate those images to our everyday lives. Yet, fashion is creative and expressive - it is art. Certainly, many of the images we see on runways are not practical, but they can inspire us to bring beauty into our own lives through our clothing.

Fashion plays an important part in how we feel about ourselves because it is related to image. If we feel our image on the outside is beautiful, it helps us to make that leap towards loving ourselves on the inside as well. Then, we are on our way to gaining congruence between our inner and outer image and we can move forward towards success with a solid sense of who we are. We are in alignment. I know that during some of my most challenging times, it was comforting to me to at least have something great to wear. It lifted my spirits and helped me to feel better about myself.

People are attracted to beautiful things because they are harmonious. Therefore, if we are dressed well, our attraction factor increases immensely. Also, we are more likely to be trusted. I think that part of the reason why we think fashion is superficial is because it is too overwhelming for us to deal with, especially if we feel we don't know how to dress. So, rather than figure it out or get help, we just push it aside by saying it's not important. Getting help and investing in ourselves is so important. It can be the catalyst that takes us to that next level in our lives.

Do you realize that in the first 7 seconds someone sees you, they are making unconscious judgments about you because of the way you are dressed? Your lifestyle is determined - from your income level to your education level and everything in between. Even though we are reminded not to "judge a book by its cover", we do. That being said, why not use it to our advantage.

ASSIGNMENT:

Take some time by yourself to reflect on the personal and/or professional goals you want to accomplish. What kind of image do you want to project in order to reach those goals? Then, take a risk and ask your friends or relatives what your image is currently reflecting. If what you want to project is not in alignment with what you are reflecting to others, you will have a starting point for re-creating yourself.